With the death of someone close, comes the realization that there are important matters to be settled... and many business, legal and financial decisions to be made. Often however, the person who must take charge is the one who is least prepared to do so.

To assist the person who is called upon to help settle the estate of a deceased relative or friend, Personal Alternative^® Funeral Services has compiled the Family Assistance Guide, featuring information on Who to see, What organizations to contact and Where to go for help. We hope you find this helpful. The following is only a general guide. Some of this information may or may not apply in your specific circumstance.

Legal complications may arise when settling an estate and distributing assets... even if it appears to be a relatively small estate. A lawyer can explain whether the estate must be probated and can assist in the probate application. If there is not a Will, a lawyer can explain the legal steps necessary to administer the estate. A lawyer can also advise on the possible claims against the estate by family members or creditors. Most lawyers will provide a free initial consultation.

If you are concerned about discussing death with your children, you're not alone. Visit HospiceNet's website for information.

Growth House is a very large directory of resources for grief and terminal illness. It also features an on-line bookstore.

An extensive list of links on Grief Support are provided courtesy of the Google search engine.

We always welcome suggestions of other websites that would be useful to our families. Please submit your links to info@pafs.net